21 June 2011

what guys should know about girls ;)

As a reply to my best buddy zedy & as extra info for other guys as well. These are mostly true, not all of them, come on, these kinda stuff varies right? But let's look generally, there's just 1 thing for sure, girls are complicated. No doubt about that. Everyone is. That's why you're unique, am I right? :) whatever it is, if you really know the girl, you will know how to handle her. Seriously, kan zedy? 

1) For all we talk about how hot guys are. We mostly care about there personality. Though a hot body is a plus

2) We are just as shy as you are about relationships

3) Many of us don't let you see us cry, unless we want you to comfort us

4) We like dropping small flirts, to see if you are interested. But we will later deny it or make it into a joke

5) Most of us prefer to be call beautiful than hot or sexy. But not all of us

6) We only wear mini skirts, tank tops and skimpy clothes for you (unless it's REALLY REALLY hot outside). So if you don't like what we wear say something likely look really nice today, but you know...I think I like you in jeans better'

7) We travel in groups for one of two reasons 1- because we want to share some form of gossip with each other or get advice on something 2 - B/c we don't want to get caught by ourselves with you because we won't know what to say and are afraid we'll make a fool of ourselves

8) MOST girls spend about 15% of the time thinking about specific guys, 20% thinking of guys in general, 25% thinking of how to get guys to notice us and what to say when we do, 30% of the time TALKING about guys (even if someone else isn't listening), and 10% of the time doing something else

9) Girls automatically assume that all guys are ***** and only want to get into our pants until you prove otherwise (and even then some small part of us still thinks that)

10) Most girls are under the impression that guys only want skinny 'hot' girls

11) Most girls enjoy being paraded around once in awhile in front of your friends. We enjoy having you show us off to your friends, kind of like, 'Hey, look at my hot ass girlfriend! Aren't you jealous?" But we don't enjoy being nothing but a trophy girl

12) Nicknames like "Babe, or darling" are safe to call just about any girl. But beware of "Princess or Angel". Some girls will take offense to this thinking you are calling them to innocent or incapable of taking care of themselves.

13) Speaking of nicknames, almost every girl has ONE nickname that they just love to be called

14) Most girls will drop lots of hints to tell you that they like you, but won't come right out and say" I like you" or "I love you". If you think they like you, there is a good chance they do.

15) Scenario time! -You like a girl named Ashley, Ashley has a friend named Brenda. Brenda comes up you in the hall and asks "Do you like Ashley?"

More often than not in this scenario Ashley asked Brenda to ask you because she is to shy to ask you herself. And even if she didn't the first thing Brenda is going to do with your answer is tell Ashley. Now you are thinking "WHAT!? NO!! DON"T TELL HER THAT!!!" but in reality, this is a good thing. Because there is a good chance she already likes you. And if she doesn't, she will now be looking at you in a different way, and let me tell you. It's a lot easier to fall for a guy if you already know they like you. So its safe. So go ahead and tell Brenda that you like Ashley. Take a chance.

16) Girls hate it when guys say perverted things.

17) Girls love to feel special, even though they might not show it

18) Girls talk about everything with their girl friends. So unless you tell us not to tell them about something, they WILL know about it within 3 days. And if you are the girl's boyfriend, that means, you're possibly 90% of their conversation. And believe me, trash talking takes up most of it, unless you're a Greek god, which you're not...

19) Girls hate guys with bad hygiene.

20) Girls love it when a guy pulls them close by the waist

21) Most girls like a guy that will willing dance with them, even if he doesn't know how

22) Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means they're attracted to you, but are afraid that they'll be showing too much

23) A kiss on the hand with the right timing can be a REAL TURN-ON

24) Some girls can think about their crushes for 18+ hours straight. No exaggeration

25) When a guy says something really sentimental, girls will remember it forever

26) Girls get embarrassed easily, even if guys don't know what the hell just happened.

27) Girls daydream about their crushes ALL the time. They just don't show it.

28) When a girl is upset and wants you to listen, she wants you to listen. She doesn't need you to fix it or tell her how to. She just wants you to listen.

29) When a girl is crying, she feels a lot safer if you pull her close and tell her that everything is going to be all right. And more likely than not, it will endear them to you more than anything else.

30) Girls love it when guys say their name

31) Girls love confidence

32) When a girl cooks for you, you know you mean a lot to her

33) Girls hate it when other girls flirt. Yet they flirt themselves too. Ah, the beauty of irony

34) We don't enjoy talking dirty to you as much as you enjoy listening.

35) Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.

36) Size does matter, but only to hoes; not girls that want relationships.

37) No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe to us. Not because we don't like your taste in women, because believe me WE do! its just that...we don't want to have to wonder if she is better than us. And if she is a hoe, we are better. So it makes things simple for us.

38) We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it. But we CAN try and hide it.
39) Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases from your body, it is not. Though we sometimes will tell you it is.

40) As far as you are concerned, we are beautiful at all times, and don't tell us different, unless you make it sound like a compliment (even if it isn't) Like, "You were really pretty yesterday when you wore -insert clothing/accessory here-, I think you should wear that more often"

41) Whatever you do, don't just show up at our house unexpected or at least without ringing the door bell...we run around in our underwear just like you do. And no matter how much you would like to see that, we will likely never talk to you again

42) DON'T CHEAT ON US. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be dirt.

43) We want you to beware of every male relative and all guy friends. All of them would kick your ass at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn't even wait for the damn hat. We just don't want you to be too obvious.

44) We enjoy being kissed by you in front of your friends. It makes us feel like you care a lot about us.

45) You don't have PMS; so don't act like you know what it's like. Don't try to understand...believe me you never will.

46) Violent statements like "If that guy keeps looking at you, I'm going to tear his head off" are appealing

47) We don't want you to say you love us if you don't mean it

48) We love it when you make eye contact with us while we talk.

49) Most girls are afraid of losing our independence to guys (for some unknown reason)

50) If you ask a girl out directly, more likely than not, she will say yes to you. Even if she only has lukewarm feelings for you, because it will give her the chance to get to know you better and get to like you even more.

51) Most girls love it when guys ask them for advice.

52) Girls like it when you tell us what you are thinking, even if you don't understand it yourself

53) After you've been dating for a while, realize that we really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond

54) There is nothing wrong with being attentive and sensitive. However, this behavior can be carried too far. You don't have to hang on our every word or give in to our every whim. The thrill of the chase doesn't end after the first successful pick-up line. If you don't present us with some minor challenges, we're likely to get bored, or worse, feel that you're creepy and obsessive.

55) Variety is the spice of life. There are patterns underlying what your woman says she likes and doesn't like. It would benefit you far more to try and discern the nature of these than to repeat everything she admits to enjoying until she no longer does

56) Most men think the chase ends once they have us, but truly it has only just began.You must work even harder to keep us then you do you earn us. We not some trophy you can earn,put on a shelf and admire. You have to care for us like the living human beings we are.(see 54)


58)If someone flirts with you, its a complement. If you're not interested, accept it but dont flirt back.

59)The woman in your life needs to hear how you feel about her, and often. Tell her now

60)All women are complicated, and it is doubtful any man will ever fully be able to understand us.But we know that, so its going to be ok.

not satisfied girls? tell me, I'll add up the points, sharing is caring :)

14 June 2011

the perfect guy or a great man?

Define perfect. Perfect : conforming absolutely to the description or definition of an ideal type.

Definisi sempurna. Sempurna : tidak ada cacat celanya (kekurangannya; lengkap;baik lagi teratur)

okay, to tell you all what perfect is, boleh refer ↑ okay. haha.

somebody asked me, what makes a great guy? great man? Generally, a great man is the one who can take care of himself, take good care of his parents, his family, reliable and of course the one who can be trusted. If a girl sees these traits in a man, she'll adore him for sure. Girls wants to be cared, wants to be loved and if a guy could take care of everything, there's no doubt that the man can take care of the girl as well. 

But what makes a PERFECT guy? I mean, take this as an example, yeah he possesses everything in this world, but then he never gets the one he loved, is that perfect? okay, another one, he has good looks, good income, but too bad he's a player. come on, there's nothing perfect in this world. Wake up baby! he may be perfect to your eyes, but he ain't in others. Still he ain't perfect.

Reality check girls, don't run after the PERFECT one, but look for a GREAT man. The one who can look after you, and imagine if you're with a perfect guy, what would it be? Adore him, but love the one who can love you as much.

Love is subjective. Love is blind.
Don't hurt yourself because of love coz it supposed to bring happiness into one's life ☺

what do you think? please tell me.

25 May 2011

semester break

saat ini la yang ditunggu² oleh umat sekalian alam (students jak lah) because boleh relax from assignments, quizzes, tests, classes bla bla bla but have you all use your holiday time wisely?

cuba tanya aku, adakah aku telah menggunakan masa cuti aku dengan sebaik² nya?

jawapan aku tak lain dan tak bukan, sememangnya TIDAK. No! I have not used my holiday period wisely, I throw my time (buang masa saya) by sleeping all day long and stay up at night, it's just like being an owl, except that owl stares at the moon while I stare at my laptop, whole night. yes. I'm great. I know.

so I thought that I have wasted my time efficiently, and I have been a really, very very good girl as I do not go out from my house. That's the positive side. but yeah I won't talk about the negative part though. ahahaha.

maybe I should find myself a hobby, that do not need technology such as the internet, so that I can get my ass out, and oh yeah, maybe I should go for a jog later perhaps? I've been farming (in cityville) and shopping (in ITgirl) yeah, I should. 

enough. give me some suggestions, what should I do to fill up my time this holiday, maybe you'll get something in return for being a helpful acquaintance :) 

do tell me 

16 May 2011

whattodo, WHAT TO DO?!

okay, for PMU students, tonight will be the night that I will fall for you-- eh, salah. Malam tok adalah malam nok mendebarkan dada, kepala, jantung, kaki dan semua²nya lah nok boleh didebarkan. Wanna know why? Sebab esok result for final exam sesi Disember 2010 akan diumumkan (dipaparkan di website jak, whatever~)  ...

SO malam tok rame rakan² seperjuangan aku meruyan;

"esok result kua, nebes aku eh!" - "argh! ergh! harap lulus semua!" - "benaka result kua isok?" (-__-) noob!

and ada juak nok berkeyakinan tinggi, (i like positive ones);

"sik sabar menanti hari esok! semoga aku dan rakan² kelas ku lulus semuanya, amin!" (aku suka sebab nya doakan k aku juak :P )

HAHA! and I reviewed their Facebook status updates, semua cerita sal ya. Arum bulak, kat home ya, nang bertete² status sal topik ya.


As for me myself, BULAK lah mun sik nervous. Bukan nya aku belajar ilak pun ariya (LOSER) haha! Tapi keyakinan harus ada, tawakal, usaha ya dah kira terlewat sudaaa la sebab usaha comes before tawakal. haha
Insan yang cemerlang datangnya dari hati dan akal yang tenang yee ye!


Anyway, GOOD LUCK -k nyenang ati jak- (boh marah aku) to all of those yang sedang kecur perut, cold feet, asa² nak pitam nunggu result final exam, not just PMU students tapi to all  IPTA IPTS students, senang cita to ALL OF YOU nok terasa lah!

15 May 2011


Okay, first things first.

1. I'm on holiday (2 months wo!)
2. I'm at Ipoh
3. I'm alone (no friends thats what I mean)

wahaha! Aku rindu MIRI oi! HELP ME! HELP!!!

18 April 2011


whoa! it feels like YEARS since my last post, been reaaaalllyyy busy lately. Now ada free, curi masa sikit to update my dusty blog. ☺ 

Currently, we're having war inside the examination hall and using only pens and pencils as our armament. Final week has started, and soon, I'll be back my lovely home sweet home!

I'm too tired to think right now, quite blur~ anyways, GOOD LUCK for those who are / going to have their final test.
may the force be with us!

03 February 2011

Just The Way You Are
by Bruno Mars

Someone really love this song so much, so I dedicate this to 

Oh, her eyes, her eyes make the stars look like they're not shinin'

Her hair, her hair falls perfectly without her tryin'
She's so beautiful
And I tell her everyday

Yeah, I know, I know when I compliment her, she won't believe me
And it's so, it's so sad to think that she don't see what I see
But every time she asks me do I look okay?
I say

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
'Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are

And when you smile
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
'Cause girl, you're amazing
Just the way you are

Her lips, her lips, I could kiss them all day if she'd let me
Her laugh her laugh, she hates but I think it's so sexy
She's so beautiful
And I tell her everyday

Oh, you know, you know, you know I'd never ask you to change
If perfect's what you're searching for, then just stay the same
So don't even bother asking if you look okay
You know I'll say

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
'Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are

And when you smile
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
'Cause girl, you're amazing
Just the way you are

The way you are
The way you are
Girl, you're amazing
Just the way you are

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
'Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are

And when you smile
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
'Cause girl, you're amazing
Just the way you are, yeah


gong xi gong xi  gong xi nyi! Chinese New Year Eve is always the best part of all, where all the families are going to gather, have fun, reminiscing the past, long conversation, and endless memories will be created. my belly almost popped as I ate too much prawns and other great dishes just now. woot woot! although I'm having flu and coughed quite heavily, I still have the guts to collect my angpows. Tomorrow, tomorrow and tomorrow! HAHAHAHA! HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR TO MY BELOVED FAMILIES AND FRIENDS! :D :D

31 January 2011


berapa bulan sudah x update blog? marahlah aku marahlahh~ hahaha! banyak draft tapi x sempat post =.=" terlalu busy kononnya. hahaha. now cuti midsem, cuti CNY, angpow laii~ aku kat poli sahaja sambil menikmati milo panas, melayan Sevencollar T-shirt dan agak blues dek kerana hujan yang mencurah² sejak awal tengah malam tadik. ahaha! oh ya, juga demam sebab .. ah, panjang ceritanya, xlarat nak story mori. haha! biar aku attach gambar, and korang find out sendiri :P

sekian, beta nak tidor, moga² dapat mimpi indah.